It's natural and even normal to have a crush on your coworkers because you spend so
much time around them. If you are interested in flirting with a girl and pursuing her,
then be friendly and within boundaries at your workplace.
Here are ten friendly tips to help you pick up girls at work. It can be your workplace,
or her work place like a store or restaurant.
You can meet her at casual social events. Places where you feel at ease talking to your
co-worker. You should also consider places where she would be comfortable talking to
you.
If you don't want to be rudely rejected, create an environment that allows natural
conversation to flow. Your workplace has many great places to chat with your female
colleagues. They might even go to these locations with you if you like them.
Always assess the situation before you approach a girl. Respect her space if she seems
in a rush or seems emotionally unavailable.
As much as we hate being harassed by charity collectors and street sellers,
observational awareness can be very important. Don't be surprised to get your face
palmed if someone interrupts you in a panic.
You can add a joke to your work email or send her a funny photo via webchat. You can
make a light hearted joke about the meeting that you attended earlier in the day.
Both of you have at least one thing in your common: work. It can be used to spark a
conversation. Avoid gossiping about your co-workers. Be positive and not
negative. Avoid making inappropriate jokes. Keep it light and friendly.
Offer to help her if she is
assigned a large project or must stay late. Ask her if you can help her or if she has any
questions. It's a friendly gesture, but it also shows that you are interested in spending
extra time with her.
You can bring her up to date with notes or a quick call if she is absent from a meeting. You'll not only be helping her, but you will also show her your interest in her. Speak to her like this: "I noticed that you were out yesterday, so I took down some notes during our meeting for you." This will let her know that you are aware of when she isn't around.
Offer to take her out to lunch on a working day. A quick lunch break is one way to spend
time together, but with less pressure. You can ask her to take a quick bite outside, or just
sit down next to her in the breakroom while she eats.
Lunch is a great way to meet up, have a chat, and get to know your co-worker. You can
make things a lot more casual and relaxed by taking her somewhere other than work.
To impress a girl, don't pretend you are someone
else. Women can sense if a fake is being presented to them. Be your best self. Self-assurance is beautiful.
Being inauthentic always backfires. Inauthenticity is always a problem. You will have to admit that you are going to be dating the girl you dream of and she is your perfect match.
This will make a girl anxious, and
cause her to want to stop the conversation. Do not be like a deer caught up in the
headlights.
Talking to the ground and crossing your arms is not a good idea. Talking to women is
supposed be fun! You can make her feel happy by sharing your positive emotions. She
will also enjoy the moment.
Smile, open your body, and face the woman when you are talking. Voice tonality can
also be important. Do not rap your words. Speak up to get her attention and don't
mumble.
It is also a great way to improve your tone. There should be no monotonous chat-up
lines. You can practice your highs, lows and accentuating words as if you are telling a
story.
It's still the man's responsibility to make the first move
in dating.
You have to pull the trigger whether you are meeting a girl, or going in for a kiss. As a
man, it's your responsibility. It is your duty to be brave and willing to sacrifice for
women. You can expect to be disqualified from time to another. It's part of the
territory.
How you deal with rejection will determine your success in attracting women. You'll
eventually become less afraid of rejection if you learn from your mistakes, bounce
back, and continue practicing.
These are the core concepts. Let's now give you a step by step breakdown of how to
pick up a girl. Let's start with the basics and then move on to how you exchange
numbers.
It is possible for coworkers to
report you to a supervisor. Physical gestures such as touching can make her feel
uncomfortable, which could be the opposite of what she wants.
Even if you are flirting, keep it professional. It's possible to flirt with her without
touching her. Eye contact, smiles and glances can be just as effective than touching,
but they don't have to come with the risk of being too forward or acting
inappropriately. It might be a compliment to her work ethic. Give her praise for a
recent project that went well.
To be safe, keep things lightened and more on her prude side. Do not make sexual
comments or mention anything that might offend her. These comments can lead to
harassment suits and complaints against you with the human resources.
Find something that her co-workers
are interested in so she doesn't feel like you're judging her. This won't make it seem
like you're trying to be too strong. Once you have gone out with a group, it is possible
to suggest that you go out alone.
You should make the occasion casual when you invite her out for a one -on-one
conversation. You invite her like you're going and ask her to come along. You will feel
less intimidated, and it will be less formal than a date. You could say something like "I
was going out to my favorite bar after work today for one or two drinks. Would you
like to join us??
It's easy to fall
back on work when you are flirting with someone you work alongside. Ask her what
she enjoys doing outside of work. This will show her that you care about her as more
than a co-worker. It'll also help you to get to know her better.
You might be working in an office that has cubicles or desks. Take a look at the
woman's and check out what kind of knick-knacks they have. These may also give you
clues to her interests and can be used as conversation starters.
You
might find that some companies have very strict rules about co-workers
fraternizing. You could be fired if you violate these rules.
These policies may not be applicable if co-workers are at different levels. It might be
illegal for a supervisor or manager to pursue his subordinates. Sometimes, no policies
are in place for workplace romance.
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